Social media is the future. Like it or not it is.
I'm writing this today after reading a really great comment on my blog (on my Instagram post) that basically asked how important certain social media sites really were for growing an online business or blogging.
I've thought a lot about this question and the answer is that using social media has been one of THE most important methods of growing my readership here on Salsa Pie. If you ask me to explain how exactly, I'll tell you this: once I write a post or create something and post about it, I also share a link on my FB page, twitter and sometimes even pin a project on Pinterest. But it doesn't stop there. I also devote a day or 2 days in my schedule to reach out and communicate with a network of bloggers and people with online influence that have become my friends and colleagues.
It frustrates me when I read biographies of bloggers who say they have no clue how their blog became popular. The story usually goes something like this: their mother was the only one who read their blog and then suddenly, overnight, everyone in the world was reading it. Overnight, they were a sensation because they posted something fantastic and it went viral. They still aren't sure how. Sponsors called, opportunities knocked and suddenly they were getting paid doing what they love. But they don't know how it all happened. Maybe it was just because they were so fabulous?
This story is NOT true ever (I mean probably almost never ever, ever) so please don't believe it and please don't allow this to let you lose hope or think you don't have talent.
Blogging takes time and so does building a audience. Decide how much time you can devote each day to this endeavor and then be consistent.
So, now you know the secret: most bloggers that become a sensation overnight have really been working on becoming a sensation for quite some time. Most likely that work has entailed some rejection and even some hard lessons learned. Most bloggers that become an overnight sensation can attribute at least the start of their success to communicating with other bloggers. Why? Because the blogger community is also a community of blog readers and people of influence in the online world.
Oprah once said that she was in-touch and approachable because she communicated with real life people on a daily basis.
Reading other blogs you love and reaching out to bloggers isn't something you have to spend your entire day doing (and nobody expects you to) but it's an important part of networking. Do it in a genuine way and with bloggers you really like and you'll never be wasting time. What you are doing is building real friendships. Just ask any blogger who has ever met another blogger friend in person. Treat your blogger friends as true friends and don't ever imagine the online world as something that isn't "real". Like the telephone or television, communicating with others online is just another method of sharing information. When you network, you are not acting, you are communicating and if you aren't genuine, it shows.
If you can't afford to go to a blog conference don't give up trying to attend one but also don't put all your eggs in that basket. I still believe that social media networking is paramount.
So far I've had some pretty great opportunities open up as a result of my blog and while I'm still learning my way, I do think I've learned a great deal about navigating the social media waters. I write all of this to inspire you to see that almost nothing is overnight. And almost nothing comes easy. There are certainly events that can be "game-changers" but those only occur as a result of or in combination with a blogger putting out consistently good work.


15 comments:
And your blog is great. So if you write it they will come...or something like that :)
Thanks, Rebecca. I think YOU are great. :)
Great post! I *always* fall for the whole overnight sensation thing, so thanks for the reminder that every blogger works it in some way.
Thanks, Elizabeth! I included this portion because I have found overnight sensations to be a myth in almost any profession: acting, writing, blogging--you name it. And it's not helpful to perpetuate that myth even when it sounds more glamourous than saying--I worked very, very hard!
Well said, friend! Tweeted and shared with my readers on Facebook. Love to you!
-Lacy
I loved your analysis of overnight sensations. Too funny! It's the bloggers version of the 'fish I caught last year' story: it was always bigger than anything caught this year.
Great post, Caroline! So so true. Blogging is hard work and it takes A LOT of time to get anywhere with it, it seems. I know a few of those "overnight sensations" and it definitely was not overnight. It takes commitment for sure, and perseverance.
I'm so blessed to have some very good friends that have come from blogging. Some I have met in real life and some not... like you! The friendships indeed are as real as any face to face friendship is. They also take time and intentionality, and sincerity. That's what I appreciate about you, friend... and we WILL meet face to face someday!
It's great advice--and you do it so well. You have a talent for engaging with others in a genuine way. Your comments are always so thoughtful.
So true! I have a tiny overnight success story from one post that went viral and hasn't stopped, but I had been busting my ass for two years before then. And I am still am. It just fueled me to work harder.
Stephanie--thanks so much for chiming in! I was bringing up this point to inspire people to work hard and not think just one thing will happen "overnight" and make them a "success". And like you, I do know (firsthand) how viral posts can be a huge boost--it's just not everything and it's never overnight that it happens.
:)
Leslie--thanks so much for your comment. I comment in a genuine way because for me the relationships are real. I may not always have time to visit every place (my kids need me and I need them) but when I do stop by, I make sure I'm sincere about it.
Jenny--yes it is hard work--but rewarding and with good time management--anything is possible! YOU inspire me with your work and your beautiful blog!
Jane--it helps to keep it in perspective and if I'm being completely honest, I think I also wrote this to remind myself it's never uncool to say you worked for it!
Lacy--thanks for the shares and tweets! :) xo!
Caroline, Thank you for writing this blog. I actually thought it would go from my mother to the world for a long time. Letting that piece go and embracing my blog and all the wonderful bloggers out there has been fabulous. Now I wonder if the destination can ever match the awesome journey!!
This is wonderful advice, Caroline, and I think you hit it right on. Blogging should be a conversation, not a monologue.
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Caroline, this is such a valuable article - thank you for sharing your thoughts! While I love reading and commenting on blogs, I haven't been very consistent on social media platforms such as FB, Twitter and Pinterest (or Instagram - ha!). Posting doesn't come natural to me and I'm so uncomfortable with promoting myself! I know this needs to change and your post inspires me to become more strategic and consistent with how I utilize social media. Thank you for demystifying the overnight success story! You posts are always a treat :)
I love your blog. Blogging does take work to be successful. I never believe the overnight sensations either.
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