Jun 20, 2012

DIY: Feelings Box for Kids


Kids don't always know how to talk about what they are feeling but it's still important to make sure they know they can express themselves. My children often communicate better when they draw a picture or write a little note. And, I remember the same was true for me when I was little.
In fact, when I was about 6 or 7, my father (who happens to be a family therapist) gave me a little paper box so I could write my feelings down then "mail" them. I wrote little notes of prayers and drew pictures,  then I folded them up and "mailed" them each day in my blue paper box. To this day, I remember what I wrote and what I drew and mailed. Being able to express myself was amazingly helpful for me in learning about my feelings. In fact, I look at that simple exercise as one of the most important lessons of my childhood. 

So, this week we made a "Feelings Box" and the girls drew pictures to reflect what they were feeling. 

Want to make one too?
Honestly, you don't really need a tutorial because you can simply cut a slit in a box (it doesn't have to be fancy) but if you want to know how we made ours, here's how:

You will need-
A small empty box (I used a granola box)
Some brown or wrapping paper
tape
construction paper (optional)
sharpie marker (optional)
scissors
 How To: 
Tape the box closed and (parents only) cut a slit into the side the box. Wrap the box like you would wrap a present. Have your children draw pictures to decorate the box and then have them to draw pictures or write notes about how they are feeling to "mail" inside the box. 


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14 comments:

Sandra said...

Lovely idea. I think the girl would enjoy decorating the box let alone using it! (in my paid work days I worked with families too).

allisoncarmen said...

Caroline, I think that this is such a brilliant and thoughtful idea for children. I wrote poetry when I was young to express my feelings and i hid my poetry books because I was unclear if it was okay to do it. This validates that it is okay and through these expressions children will have an opportunity to get to know who they really are. I think you should make some boxes with all your beautiful talent and sell them! I would buy some! :)! Best, Allison

Caroline said...

Sandra, So glad you like the idea! Yay!

Allison, your comment honestly made me cry and it made my day. Thanks so much for stopping by and I'm so glad that you thought this was a good exercise. :)

sheri said...

I loved this! Especially since even very young children like my 3-year-old can get behind the concept. Thank you!

Caroline said...

Thanks Sheri! I agree--this works for small children and older ones who can write journal entries and deposit them!

Melanie said...

This is a great idea. I'm pinning it for Nathaniel when he's a little older.

Jill V. / TerraSavvy said...

Another smart idea! I think my middle one, Cole would totally use this!

Thanks!

leigh said...

This is just fantastic!!!

Paloma said...

This is like the best idea ever! Sooo cool! I am going to make it on Saturday (or hopefully today... we'll see!)

Paloma.

Sue said...

I LOVE the idea of a feelings box for children...or anyone, for that matter!

=)

karen said...

What a great idea! Another one to pass along to the mommies in the family.

small + friendly said...

Okay, you need to slow down with the awesome ideas, I'm starting to get overwhelmed! :)

Anonymous said...

Great idea :) do you ever open the box or revisit these feelings?

ellen and shelley said...

this is a great one! the kid i nanny for has different containers (they're actually little purses) for different emotions. each has a journal and pen, along with other special things (for cheering up or just b/c they are special) in it.
it's weird - i totally forgot that's what your dad did until i read it. so funny those things we *know* in childhood that click in a very different way once we are adults.
:-)